Friends who think they know what's best for you

Alright, buds. Listen. We know you all love us, but please, take a chill pill. Unless it's obviously an immediate life or death situation, stay out of it. We need to make our own decisions because we are the only ones who have walked in our shoes. Even if you have had the same situations go on with you, it is still different. It impossible to see what we see, know what we know, feel what we feel because it will always be observed from our angle. We all observe things according to our unique mind and soul. So the only one who truly knows what is best is us. We must look for the answers inside ourselves. When you butt in, it just messes up the process and can make you seem either controlling or that you just don't want us to be happy with what we are trying to do. You cannot decide our lives for us. That is our job. By all means, help us with the load. Give us moral support. Help us to feel better about ourselves. THAT is your job. Friends are there as a shoulder to lean on in times of need. But we must choose which direction to take. Consider yourself ignorant to what we are going through. It will empty your cup, make you open minded, so that you may accept our water to fill it.